What Recurrent Task Has Turned Into “Ritual”?

I start this task that’s habitual,
Simple, and even instinctual.
I note with surprise,
That here in disguise,
Is something that is now a Ritual.

What task has become a Ritual for you?

This was “Cut-Bob’s-Hair” morning.
It’s a task that has been in place for a LO-O-O-NG time.

First week of our marriage,
Barely settled into our one-room rental apartment,
Bob came home with a kit for cutting hair.

“We’ll save lots of money, with you cutting my hair”.
That had never, never even entered my mind,
As part of our marriage arrangement.

May I tell you that I was NOT pleased?

In those “olden day” times,
And my “wife” perception in those “olden days”,
I just started cutting Bob’s hair.

I figure I’ve done that for about
Fifty-nine of our nearly sixty-three years together.
Hmm— probably have saved money.

What started as such an obligation,
Has morphed into Ritual.
Bob likes the convenience and attention.
I like the well-kempt result.

Of course, no pressure anymore.
His hair is white and thinner.
Style is defined as “tidy”.

This Ritual is here to stay.

Hugs.
Lin

Lin Bruce
 

Lin McLaughlin Bruce uses stories of her cross-country bicycle adventures post age 60 to inspire and encourage people to reach beyond perceived limitations. In her words, "It's never too late to say 'yes' to bigger things!"